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Writer's pictureKalina Bains

Kalina's Center, Connect, Celebrate Grandmother's Christmas Star




Happy holidays everyone sharing with you a early Christmas gift from me to you.


It's a meditation of mine.


As we approach the holiday season, let’s take a moment to gather, reflect, and celebrate the wisdom and love that we share.


Picture yourself stepping into the warm and inviting atmosphere of our She-Shed of the Soul.


This serene sanctuary, with twinkling lights and cozy blankets, is the perfect place for us to pause, breathe, and connect deeply with our inner selves and each other.


Together, on a guided meditation journey that focuses on creating and celebrating a magical moment with our love, memories, and hopes. The warmth and light of the holiday season create a serene and welcoming atmosphere.


This She-Shed of the Soul is a sanctuary where we can find calm and clarity, guided by our hearts and spirits. Together, we will go on a journey to reflect on our past, honour our present, and vision a future filled with love and wisdom.


As we approach the holiday season, let’s take a moment to gather, reflect, and celebrate the timeless wisdom and love that we share.


This moment to center, connect and celebrate in the She-Shed of the Soul. Imagine stepping into this sacred place, where the magic of Christmas surrounds you.


Picture yourself stepping into the warm and inviting atmosphere of our She-Shed of the Soul. This serene sanctuary, decorated with warm white lights, cozy blankets, and pillows is the perfect place for us to pause, breathe, and connect deeply with our inner selves and each other.


Let's take a moment to truly center ourselves. This is a chance for us to pause, breathe deeply, and reconnect with our inner selves and each other. The room is filled with the comforting crackle of a nearby fireplace, its warmth inviting you to settle in and relax. The air is infused with the familiar soothing scents, creating memories of cherished holiday traditions.


The space is trimmed with festive decorations, ornaments glistening on a beautifully decorated Christmas tree, wreaths and garlands running along the banisters and fireplace adding a touch of the season, and cozy warm blankets and pillows inviting you to sit and stay awhile. The gentle hum of holiday music plays softly in the background, creating a peaceful and joyful atmosphere.


Together, we will begin on a guided meditation journey that focuses on creating and celebrating a magical Christmas tree, covered with our love, memories, and hopes. It’s a unique opportunity to honour our past, cherish our present, and vision a future filled with love and wisdom.


Let’s start by finding a comfortable position. Close your eyes gently, take a deep breath in, and slowly exhale. Feel the tension in your body begins to melt away with each breath.


We’ll begin with a calming breathing exercise and grounding to help us feel present and centered. Then, we’ll move into a guided meditation focused on creating and celebrating a magical Christmas star, decorated with our love and memories.


Together, we will begin on a guided meditation journey that focuses on creating and celebrating a magical Christmas tree, adorned with our love, memories, and hopes. It’s a unique opportunity to honour our past, cherish our present, and vision a future filled with love and wisdom.


Let’s start by finding a comfortable position. Close your eyes gently, take a deep breath in, and slowly exhale. Feel the tension in your body begin to melt away with each breath.


We’ll begin with a calming breathing exercise and grounding to help us feel present and centered. Then, we’ll move into a guided meditation focused on creating and celebrating a magical Christmas star, decorated with our love and memories.


Finding calm, in a guided breathing exercise, breathe in deeply through your nose, counting to four. Hold your breath for a count of four. Now, exhale slowly through your mouth, counting to six. Pause briefly after the exhale before taking your next breath. Continue this breathing pattern, focusing on the rhythm of your breath. Allow your mind to quiet down, releasing any stress or worries. Feel yourself becoming more present and centered with each breath.


Now that we’re feeling centered, let the sense of calm being present in this grounding technique help us anchor ourselves in the present moment.


In your mind see and


Acknowledge 5 things you can see:

Look around and notice five different things. Maybe it’s the sparkle of the warm white Christmas lights, the flicker of candle flames, or the intricate patterns on an ornament.


Acknowledge 4 things you can touch:

Notice four things you can feel, the texture of a cozy warm blanket, the smooth surface of a table, the warmth of a mug in your hands, or the softness of your clothing.


Acknowledge 3 things you can hear:

Listen attentively and identify three sounds, the crackling of the fireplace, the gentle hum of holiday music, or the distant laughter of loved ones.


Acknowledge 2 things you can smell:

Breathe in and recognize two familiar scents, the aroma of freshly baked cookies, the scent of pine from the Christmas tree, or the fragrance of a festive candle.


Finally, Acknowledge 1 thing you can taste:

Pay attention to the taste in your mouth. It could be the lingering flavor of a holiday treat, a sip of warm tea, or simply the freshness of your breath.


Imagine we are gathered in a cozy, beautifully decorated room. In the center of our circle stands a magnificent Christmas tree, adorned with twinkling lights and shimmering garlands. The tree is a symbol of our cherished memories, hope and love.. The gentle crackling of a fireplace nearby adds a comforting, soothing sound, filling the room with warmth and a sense of calm.


Now, imagine yourself standing up and walking towards the tree. Each step is filled with intention and love. As you approach the tree, you see an ornate golden antique box filled with beautiful ornaments, each one unique and special. The soft glow of the firelight dances on the ornaments, making them shimmer.


Reach into the box and choose an ornament that speaks to your heart. This ornament represents your legacy of love for your grandchildren, both those who are with us and those who are yet to come. Feel the smooth surface of the ornament, the weight of it in your hand, and the warmth it brings.


If you have grandchildren you wish to remember, think of them now. Hold the ornament close to your heart, feeling the love and joy they bring into your life. Think of the cherished moments you’ve shared, the laughter, the hugs, the stories. The crackling fireplace reminds you of the happiest Christmases you’ve had, filled with feelings of love, belonging, and celebration.


Creating future memories for those grandchildren of the future, imagine the love you will shower upon them. Think of the stories you will share, the wisdom you will pass down, and the traditions you will create together. Hold these thoughts as you feel the ornament warm in your hands, as if infused with the promise of beautiful future moments.


Infusing the ornament with love now, gently open the ornament. Imagine placing a kiss inside, filled with all the love and hopes you hold. Blow the kiss into the ornament, sealing it with your deepest affection and blessings. Visualize the kiss inside, spreading warmth and light.


Placing the ornament on the tree, walk up to the tree and find the perfect spot to hang your ornament. As you place it on a branch, feel the light and warmth radiating from it, a symbol of your love and legacy. The ornament glows softly, a reminder of unending love.


Return to your seat in the circle, feeling the connection with your fellow grandmothers and granddaughters. Each of us has added our unique ornament, creating a tree filled with love, memories, and hope for the future. The crackling fire continues, feeling cozy and centering, connecting and celebrating love


Reflecting on our journey, take a moment to reflect on the legacy you are creating. Your stories, your wisdom, and your love are the greatest gifts you can offer. Know that each ornament on the tree is a celebration of the beautiful journey you’ve walked and the light that shines in you.


As you sit by the fire, think back to the happiest Christmas you’ve had. Remember the feelings of love, belonging, and celebration. Let these feelings wash over you, filling your heart with warmth and joy. Know that you are a source of love and light for your family and community.


Now, imagine yourself reaching into the box of decorations once more, and this time, you pick up a shining star. You hold it tenderly, feeling its weight and significance. You walk over to your mother, and with a smile, you place the star in her hands. She looks at you with love and gratitude, then turns and gives the star to her mother, your grandmother. Together, the three of you represent generations of love and wisdom.


You, your mother, and your grandmother walk together to the tree. you invite the rest of your loved ones to join this beautiful moment. Together, you gently place the star at the very top watching beams of light flow down. The radiant light illuminates the tree, blanketing you and all your loved ones in a warm blanket of love. This light surrounds each of you in the circle around you, embracing them with a golden glow.


Connecting to the Universe envision the golden light rising, reaching out to the stars. Feel the ethereal connection forming, linking you to the universe. This connection is a web of light, filled with the love, wisdom, and healing passed down through generations. It is a symbol of the unbreakable bond we share, and it fills you with a deep sense of peace and unity.


Center, Connect, and Celebrate in this golden light, let’s take a moment to center ourselves. Feel the love and wisdom flowing through you, connecting you to the grandmothers before you and those who will come after. Celebrate this moment of connection, healing, and unity.


We remember where we have been, our journey through the years, and the lessons we've learned. We honour our present life, the love we share with our family and friends. And we look forward to the future, filled with hope, joy, and new experiences.


Let’s close our meditation with a prayer of gratitude


God, We thank you for the blessings of this season, For the love that surrounds us, and for the wisdom passed down through generations. May we continue to share our light, to be a source of love and guidance, and to create a legacy of compassion and unity.


In this golden light, take a moment to center yourself. Feel the love and wisdom flowing through you, connecting you to the grandmothers before you and those who will come after.


 Celebrate this moment of connection, healing, and unity.


As we bring our Grandmother's Christmas Star meditation to a close, let’s take a moment to reflect on the peace and connection deep inside of us.


Feel the love and wisdom that flows through you, connecting you to the grandmothers before you and those who will come after.


As we close this meditation, take a deep breath in and out. When you’re ready, gently open your eyes and smile, knowing that your legacy of love will continue to grow and blossom. The connection you’ve made today is eternal, reaching out across time and space.


Know that the ornaments we have placed on our Christmas tree are symbols of our love and legacy. The golden light that now surrounds us represents the unbreakable bond we share, reaching out to the stars and connecting us to the universe.


As we move through the holiday season and into the new year, carry with you the feeling of connection and love cultivated during our meditation. Remember that you are a source of light and warmth for those around you. Your love, wisdom, and presence make a profound impact on your family and community.


Embrace this season with an open heart, and let your light shine brightly.


Carry this feeling of connection and love with you as you move through the holiday season and into the new year. Remember that you are a source of light and warmth.


Your Light Shines Brighter Than Ever


As you move through the holiday season and into the new year, let your light shine brighter than ever. Your positivity and warmth are needed more than ever, and your light can be a beacon of hope and joy for others.



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